I found, while laying in bed, if I pull the back of my briefs down below my butt while keeping the front up, I can slip the Venus over my penis with plenty of room for it to travel up and down my shaft, yet still stay on HANDS-FREE. This technique can be adjusted to gain more or less control of the movement of Venus by adjusting the Briefs. I usually read a Nifty Story or two, allowing Venus to suck away for what has become a routine hour or more daily. Then when I’m ready to finish, I just turn up the speed and switch from story to Videos and Pop, Wow, Bang…another successful relief. I’m hooked and in love with this toy.