January 13, 2015 at 5:57 pm #4621dangarbeachParticipant
I have no trouble in getting an erection and keeping it. When I make love to my wife I can keep going and going but not ejaculate. I think it’s because I have reduced penile sensitivity due to diabetes. My wife has multiple orgasms and feels bad cos she can’t get me off by hand….takes forever and her hand gets sore.
Will the Venus help me with my lack of penile sensitivity ?
BTW, I can get off by myself as most guys know exactly how to please themselves.January 24, 2015 at 6:44 am #email@example.comParticipant
Hi. I have had the same problem for some time now, and am just starting to get over it. The good news is that it’s possible to return to normal functioning, but it takes a little work by both partners.
The most effective things for me (us) have been the Masters and Johnson “sensate focus” exercises that sex therapists have used for a long time. You can probably find them on the web.
Added to that, it helps to avoid using porn during masturbation (so that you can focus on your own body’s sensations and not something external), and to try to duplicate the kind of stimulation you get from intercourse when you masturbate.
That last part is where the Venus helps a lot–it has helped me gain confidence that things will work.
Overall, I’d say that my experience is that Venus is a very useful (and fun!) part of the solution, but you may need to have some other things working as part of your team.
Good luck!May 9, 2015 at 8:59 am #4623oldguy79Participant
I am 80. I’ve owned a Venus for about 5 years. I have borderline high blood sugar, 100-120 range. My doctor was concerned enough about diabetes to send me to a nutritionist. We keep watch of my blood sugar – diet and exercise. But I DO have numb feet and reduced penile sensation, more spinal stenosis than the average bear. Of course I have erectile dysfunction. I live alone. I habitually use Viagra to get off by hand even. I limit Venus to only once a week now to try and have the best session possible. Many times I resort to finishing by hand to get a more violent action than Venus can provide, however I greatly enjoy Venus-play at length, in conjunction with watching porn. I have no reason to limit porn since have no wife. However, FANTASY is what will turn the trick. A NEW fantasy makes for a MUCH better session. Prostate stimulation sometimes helps. You need to use a cock ring to guard against erection loss when a toy is inserted, at least i do. I hope anyone with any other helpful information will reply to this thread, cause I’d sure like to get back to playing Venus 4-5 times a week too!May 9, 2015 at 12:35 pm #4624VENUSJUDGE666Participant
TO GET BACK TO VENUS IS TO WANT TO LOVE IT MORE THAN ANYTHING LIKE I DO . MY FANTASY IS BEING A POWERFUL JUDGE SITTING IN HIS CHAIR ONLY WANTING AND LOVING HIS MACHINE . I SIT HERE HOOKED UP TO VENUS IN MY OFFICE AREA WITH MIRRORS ALL OVER SO I CAN SEE ALL THE FUN I AM HAVING . I WANT LONG SESSIONS BURIED IN MY LOVER AND THE JUDGE HAS NO MERCY OR FEELINGS JUST LOVING A MACHINE . WOW DO I ENJOY MY FANTASY AND THE VENUS LOVING IS FANTASTIC AND THEN I WATCH MY VIDEO THAT I MADE ON XHAMPSTER , VENUS2000LOVING AND I GET TO SIT HERE GETTING MY COCK MILKED AWAY ON WITH VENUS AND NOW VENUS IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN SATISFY ME AND MY FANTASY SO JUST LOVE END ENJOY MORE AND MORE .November 16, 2015 at 4:46 pm #5653airplanes1Participant
I also have some delayed ejac probs,I have tried just about everythingDecember 31, 2015 at 2:38 pm #5973RobertParticipant
There are a bunch of sexy and exciting videos on Pornhub called ‘Cock Hero’ that are compilations of best scenes set to music and a changing beat you keep up with. Very stimulating and some are impossible to beat! They are made for a hand masturbation so you have to adjust the speed dial a lot. It’s fun! That may help with delayed cumming. Use the lube and refresh it with a water spray bottle spritz into your receiver and penis. Saves lube to a point and restores that slickery sensation!December 31, 2015 at 11:38 pm #5980VENUSJUDGE666Participant
MY VENUS LOVER STAYS SLIPPERY AND READY FOR LONG HOURS OF LOVE . I REALLY LOVE AND ENJOY LONG HARD SESSIONS WITH VENUS . I LEAVE MY LOADS AND USE LUBE SO MY LOVER HAS MANY LOADS OC CUM AND LUBE TO OOZE DOWN AS I AM GETTING MILKED ON TO KEEP IT FULL OF CUM . THE SMELL IS ONE THAT I CAN ONLY LOVE , A SMELL OF WICKED EVIL POWER FROM MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF VENUS LOVING . IT IS THE BEST EVER AND I WANT TO LOVE IT MORE AND MORE , SIT HERE AND LOVE IT ALL NIGHT .
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